Thursday, February 26, 2009
forgive
and she will eat the bitterness made by herself in the future.GOD will judge her eternally.
Good luck,peter,Good luck your couple...
A diary from year before
Cherish myself.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
恶妇和恶事
好事坏事
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
She sent back
Yes, I will give you enough time you want, none of my biz any more, I m gonna delete you from my life,totally.
不知对不对-当然是要爱
1、女人是自卑的动物,所以被动与敏感,需要男人的肯定与追求。
2、女人是虚荣与无知的动物,女人越爱虚荣就越说明她自卑,因为只有来自外在的肯定与虚荣才会使她相信自我的价值。
3、女人认为自己不如男人,而且会在潜移默化中强化这种情绪,所以,女人作为弱者,会编制各种保护伞来寻求保护,以逃避男人的伤害。外表冷漠、清高自傲等等都是女人逃避伤害的借口与表象。
4、女人作为弱者,缺乏安全感,而这来自于男女身体的差异,女人身体柔弱,缺乏力量, 所以,对力量充满恐惧,总是害怕和逃避力量的伤害,而只有彻底的伤害与蹂躏女人的身体与意志,才会真正使女人放弃对力量的躲避与恐惧,女人才会真正有安全感,所以,所有的女人都具有受虐的倾向与幻想,女人在潜意识里认为男人强暴女人是正常的表现,男人的性能力越强,插入女人身体越深,对女人伤害越大就是越有力量的表现,而这正好可以在更大程度上满足女人对力量的追逐,从而弥补自己力量的缺失。
5、女人不如男人,所以,女人的一切行为举止都是为男人而服务的,只有男人的注视与肯定才会使她有价值。女人的漂亮打扮、举止优雅,高贵气质,都是在向男人展示自己的价值。这样一方面,借此逃避与遮蔽一般男人对自己的伤害。另一方面,希望自己喜欢的男人来伤害自己。
6、女人是无知和盲从的动物,思想上依附于男人的评价。女人作为弱者,潜意识里认为自己的思想也是无知和迷茫,需要强势男人对其改造。男人的坚定与自信可以摧垮任何女人的心理防线。
7、占有女人的心的最好的途径是插入她的阴道,摧毁她的心理防线。让其褪掉世俗的压力和束缚,撕掉自己的面具和伪装,变成荡妇和淫妇,真正享受被强暴和蹂躏的痛苦和畅快。女人永远记得第一次占有她身体的男人。女人伪装的越深,束缚越多,就越需要男人帮其撕掉伪装,强暴她,占有她,让她做真正的自己。
8、女人认为自己是弱者,因而要进行伪装,保护自己,但女人也只认为自己是弱者才是真正的女人。所以,女人崇拜力量,愿意屈服于男人。被男人强暴,被男人蹂躏,事实上帮助女人实现了愿望,女人会感激男人。
9、女人是一种可怜的动物。女人归属于男人,女人渴望被男人占有,但又害怕被男人抛弃,所以,女人被动,犹豫不决。
关于男女
1、男人的成功首先来源于天生的性别优势。男人天生是强者,最根本的体现在于男女的差别,所以,在女人面前,男人应充满力量。
2、男人的根本在于对女人的占有和蹂躏,男人的能力最重要的是性能力。
3、夹的再紧的阴道也注定只是阴道,没有捅不开的逼洞,只要鸡巴足够强壮。
4、男人注定要骑在女人身上,男人的阴茎具有攻击性,而女人的阴道只能被动承受,所以,男人是天生的征服者,女人是天生的被征服者。
5、女人的快感来自于对痛苦的承受,这根源于女人阴道对侵入体内的阴茎的接纳。男人的快感来自于力量的释放,这根源于男人阴茎对女人阴道的蹂躏和摧残。
生活中的女人享受男人施加的各种痛苦和烦恼,而男人享受力量带来的权势、地位。男人要学会折磨女人。
6、母爱是伟大和宽容的,女人愿意承受孩子带来的一切,因为,连自己身体被摧残、被蹂躏、被占有都承受了,孩子的一切又有什么不能接受的?伟大的母性甚至愿意为孩子牺牲自己,因为在潜意识里她认为男孩是天生高贵的,而女孩身体又比自己要纯洁。而自己的身体被蹂躏,已经不重要了。女人天生自卑。
7、阴道的作用就是接纳阴茎,如何接近她,让大门为你敞开,需要坚挺的男人努力奋斗。
8、女人的阴道喜欢坚挺的鸡巴。现实的女人喜欢坚挺、自信的男人。
9、坚挺来自于自信,自信来自于内心坚定,内心坚定外在于眼睛。
SM
关于女性天生受虐狂的结论起源于西格蒙德,弗洛伊德.在他和他的门徒的推动下,考虑到性生理学研究在最近几十年的进展,这一理论体系的主要论点是:
1.女性是"不完整"的个体.她们没有"阴茎",或者说她们的"阴茎"被"阉割"而变成了阴蒂.这一"阉割情结"是整个弗洛伊德后期思想核心.弗洛伊德据此得出的结论是,由于"阉割情节"而导致的"阳具崇拜",从根本上导致了女性的自卑感,从而决定了女性气质的三个特征:被动,受虐倾向和自恋.这一观点我将在下面详细分析.需要注意的是,弗洛伊德由此推出女性在社会文化与文明创造领域的"无能"甚至"阻碍"作用.而这个是最为女权主义诟病的
2.由"阴道性交"推出的结论.这一观点由弗洛伊德首先提出,由他的门徒,奥地利女心理学家迪兹克完善.这种理论指出,女性性快感唯一来源是"受虐".迪兹克甚至认为,"性交本身就是一种暴力过程",这主要指阴道性交过程中男性"阴茎"的穿刺,特别是第一次阴道性交中女性处女膜破裂带来的生理痛苦.与后来女性性高潮中享受到的"快感"相联系.这就意味着性交这种对女性的暴力行为是女性性快感的唯一来源.迪兹克甚至把这一范畴扩展到女性怀孕以及分娩的整个过程,把它看作女性一个广泛意义的痛苦的"性交".这一观点从本质上甚至把女性角色与"生育"机能联系起来,当然受到了女权主义更强烈的反对.
Monday, February 23, 2009
i should know what i m doing
the harzard of Porn
Today I watched a little bit porn(maybe because angry? anyway, all is excuses), and don’t know why, but it really eliminates the disgusting feeling when I think of her; This is a test, it shows the porn isn't good, it is equivalent adultery, because I don’t have any feeling anymore, no angry, no sad, why ? Because I just did adultery with some people in the movie, just like she did, my soul is rotting. It is seduce from Satan, it reduce the man's normal feeling, let man fall into deep death places.
Lord, please forgive me, this is a test; let me know- without love, all the other things are bullshit.
No matter how we cover ourselves, no matter how many excuses we make ,it just happened. Like adultery...
Lord, please don’t turn around from me, though it is a test, I know what is I should do or not should do, listen to your words without doubts cuz you are the creator, the holy father, you know what do good to your beloved son. Your son will listen to your words, because they are all benefits ,no harm. Thank you Lord for listening. In your Holy Name. Amen.
不可饶恕
由我的经验联想到佛吉尼亚杀人案
感情随想
Sunday, February 22, 2009
父母
明明白白
贵族的学校,和高贵的品格
杂想
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
The difference between winners and losers.
MONDAY, AUGUST 27, 2007
The difference between winners and losers.
What is the difference between a winner and a loser? How can you tell if someone is a winner who has suffered a temporary defeat or a loser? How can you tell if you yourself have become a loser?
Easy, listen for the excuse. Losers always make excuses, its why they're losers. Winners own their failures and learn from them.
This simple and mostly under appreciated fact is what all the feminists, minority activists, social justice types, socialists, leftists, redistribution of wealth types, etc simply don't get. Losers make excuses, winners make things happen.
Find yourself complaining about "rampant and institutional sexism in America" as the reason you didn't get that job you wanted? You're a loser. Find yourself bitching about the "ever present racism of American employers" as the reason you didn't get a job? Congratulations you just made the loser list. Think the reason a colleague got the promotion instead of you is because of your color, sex, religion, etc? You are a loser.
This is not a sometimes rule, or a rule of thumb, its a hard rule. Anytime you make excuses for your failures, you have become a loser. Period.
As I mentioned in an earlier post, the "wage gap" between men and women doesn't exist as a practical matter, men and women with similar age, education, and experience, earn the same amount. So why do you hear so much about it? Losers. Losers are always looking for an excuse. An excuse which allows them to place the blame on society itself are particularly popular since it will always be "valid". After all, despite the fact that more women are graduating college every year than men, the wage gap is non-existent, and the glass ceiling has been shattered, have feminists stopped bitching about sexism as the reason women aren't as successful at the highest levels as men?
Of course not. They're losers, and losers need their excuses.
Go into any poor neighborhood and start talking to people about why they don't make more money, you'll hear about sexism, racism, affirmative action, immigrants, the cost of college, "privilege", corporatism etc. Not one person will place the blame for their failures on their own lack of interest in self improvement, not one will blame his failure on his lack of education or skills, or on their lack of desire to obtain said. People who spend 100 dollars a week on beer and cigarettes will tell you with a straight face that they cant "afford" healthcare, trade school, or higher education. Guys who are out the door as soon as their shift is over decry their inability to get promoted.
In the meantime immigrants who come to this country illegally are usually able to begin earning more than natives with similar education and skills within a few years of crossing the border.
The truth is, America is the land of opportunity if you're willing to make the sacrifices necessary to capitalise on that opportunity. Wanna get ahead? Work harder, spend less. Wanna get promoted? Put in more hours, begin helping current management, act as a manager and they will make you one. Want a raise? Make yourself more valuable than your coworkers. Want to get that job? Dress well at the interview, speak well at the interview, have the skills, qualifications, and experience necessary to do the job, and you might get it.
Being a winner is hard. It means not taking the easy way out, not making excuses, it means working both hard, and smart. It means that when you have a temporary failure, you ask yourself "what could I have done differently" instead of "how did the world wrong me this time"? It means that even in instances where sexism, or racism, or other ism's may have been reason you failed, you intentionally ignore the possibility and focus on what you did wrong instead.
Now that last sentence may have thrown a few of you. It wasn't a typo. Even in a situation where you have a good, solid, reason to suspect an ism may be the reason things didn't go your way, focus on yourself instead. Why? Because while thinking "I didn't get that job because the interviewer is a racist/sexist/ageist" etc, may be emotionally satisfying, it doesn't help you improve at all. Looking at the interview and saying "I should have done X,Y,and Z, better" will. Saying to yourself "I didn't get the promotion because I'm a woman" may help you accept the disappointment of not getting the promotion, and it will probably make you better about yourself, but it wont help you get the next one. Asking yourself "What are some of the reasons I may not have gotten this promotion, and how can I change that" will. Even if this one instance was sexism, simply getting into the habit of self criticizing will lead to long term improvement. More to the point, you will be far better positioned to compete against others at your next job.
But bitching about ism's? Coming up with complex theories to explain why others are getting what you want? Complaining about "privilege" or "patriarchies",and "invisible and institutional" biases?
That's for losers.
Winners make things happen, Losers make excuses. Which are you?
POSTED BY RATIONAL MAD MAN AT 12:07 PM